Listening Ears, Repeating Voices
I’ve been on vacation at Grand Lake (in Oklahoma) with my wife’s side of the family and our daughter, son-in-law, and two of our grandsons this week. Andrew is 3 and loves to ride on the golf cart we use to get around the resort. One day, he and I were driving the golf cart to his Great Grandma’s house when a squirrel hopped out of a tree and into the road in front of us. Instead of dashing on across the road, he stopped.
As we drew closer, I slowed a bit and then playfully said, “Get out of the way you little dummy!” As the squirrel bounded away, Andrew repeated, “Get out of the way, little dummy!” When the incident was relayed to other family members, Papa was chastised for teaching Andrew a bad habit.
Later, my wife (Andrew’s “Granny”) was driving the cart with Andrew aboard when a squirrel bounded out on the road. “Look at that squirrel, Drew,” she said. He replied, “That’s not a squirrel, it’s a little dummy–Papa said!” For the rest of the week, Drew has referred to the squirrels as “little dummies.” And he’s always suggesting we look for them as we drive the cart!
Once again, Papa has relearned a lesson I learned many years ago when Drew’s Mommy and brother were little. Kids have listening ears and will repeat what they hear. Thankfully, identifying squirrels as “little dummies” is nothing terrible. I want to make sure what he hears me say is something I want him to repeat.
After nearly two weeks of silence in this space, some may be wondering if I am still around. As you can see, I’m still here.